What separates flirters from cheaters?? Assuming the guy has to be discreet – NOT blunt about his intentions b/c the other woman is married?
Any advice about how wrong the behavior is will be a waste of your time… This is purely inquisitive and meant to draw from people’s ACTUAL life experiences.
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I am married now its 9 months after marriage, I am pregnant too. My husband started looking at a lady in work place even she also looks at him beyound that she is already married. When i go to there office my husband neglects me, she tooks advantage that my huby never likes me and she started becomming very close and making him fall in love, I wanted to know how can i control this happening, since its the starting stage and i don’t wanted to go to an extream situations, As my husband starting calling her name in the mid of the night and started thinking about her very often, I knew this based on his body language, He feel very restless when he comes home, and during weekends he feels so much uneasy he cannot sit or stand he wanted to lean on sofa and close with the blanket so that i don’t find him what he does inside the blanket, but when he goes for work he feels very happy, during work time he never attend my calls, never allows me to send mails. he comes home lately even though he knows i am pregnant he still don’t have any soft corner when he’s working. for that matter i care him so much, but still i don’t know why he does this. I cooks, massage his body, head, legs every day after work, have sex every day to satisfy, Looking at any women is common for men, but he should matain a distance when he knows that other women wanted to take advantage over it. Whenever i ask he gets so much agry he beats me, spits on me but still i care him and sleep with him. I look very prety than my huby thats what every one tells. As my situation we are married and the lady whose working in the same office now looking my husband is also married, which is very filthy when we think, I just wanted the lady to go away from my husband thoughts so that even she will not be cheating her husband , and i can also lead a peacful life. Pls guide me what i should do so that she stops liking my husband or tell me what i should do so that my husband stops looking at her.
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We all have to find a place of Recovery and live without Stress and Disorder in our life,In Meetings 12 steps we can find Unity and Hope. That don’t me we agree will all the views or lifestyles other members live Hey we don’t hang with or have to stay with these Addicts 24/7 just for the Meeting and as long as we can,and have the choice to leave at anytime after the meetings over. Look I had regular Friends before I got Clean(there all gone but one thats supports my Recovery)and two after I started work at Boeing, Most Regular Folks don’t work out for me and my Recovery the Normies are Mostly Fake and Self centered Just like many in Active Addiction and in the 12 Steps Rooms and don’t hangout much after they use you for what you can do for them(I find that very unappealing and Self centered)and then throw you Under the Bus Just like so many before when you used to hang and Get Tattoo’s and talk about Cool Stuff Like Spirtual Growth and Jesus(I miss that Friend)but I have No Control on what others do In Life. Thats Recovery biased thinking in Action Living the Steps(the real part of the NA Program for myself) Thanks NA for my Recovery and keeping me Clean.
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We all have to find a place of Recovery and live without Stress and Disorder in our life,In Meetings 12 steps we can find Unity and Hope. That don’t me we agree will all the views or lifestyles other members live Hey we don’t hang with or have to stay with these Addicts 24/7 just for the Meeting and as long as we can,and have the choice to leave at anytime after the meetings over. Look I had regular Friends before I got Clean(there all gone but one thats supports my Recovery)and two after I started work at Boeing, Most Regular Folks don’t work out for me and my Recovery the Normies are Mostly Fake and Self centered Just like many in Active Addiction and in the 12 Steps Rooms and don’t hangout much after they use you for what you can do for them(I find that very unappealing and Self centered)and then throw you Under the Bus Just like so many before when you used to hang and Get Tattoo’s and talk about Cool Stuff Like Spirtual Growth and Jesus(I miss that Friend)but I have No Control on what others do In Life. Thats Recovery biased thinking in Action Living the Steps(the real part of the NA Program for myself) Thanks NA for my Recovery and keeping me Clean.
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I asked a similar question yesterday and the range of answers didn’t really help me much. So now I’m rephrasing the question, hopefully to get some positive answers that I can use to truly get insight to my wife’s situation.
My wife told me on our wedding night that she had been molested by an uncle as a teenager. This was the same time she told me that she could no longer do certain things to me orally in bed. These were things she did during our whole courtship, and she stopped doing them from the time we got married.
She does not openly discuss what happened to her, but has told me bits and pieces. From these bits and pieces she expects me to understand what happened to her, how it made her feel, and the does and don’ts of getting oral sex from her. Because of the bits and pieces I’m completely confused.
Let me explain how confusing this is. When I feel so confused I don’t even try to get oral sex she get’s upset and says “I never said I wouldn’t do it. I like doing it, and the way it makes you feel.” When I come out and ask for it, she gets upset with me (I guess I’m not supposed to ask). However if during sex I just put it in her face she enjoys that. She likes me putting my hand on the back of her head and guiding her, but I can’t actually push her head down to initiate it. She’s even okay with me being rough and foreful (which doesn’t make sense to me).
I’m throughly confused, because having been in another relationship with a woman who was sexually assaulted the opposite of the above would make sense. When I try to talk about the do’s and don’ts she gets upset because I’m making her relive the situation.
Can someone please help me understand what may be going through her mind?
P.S. She WON’T go to counseling. She said she tried it 15 years ago and it doesn’t work.
P.P.S. I love my wife, but I don’t understand how oral sex wasn’t an issue before we got married, but it started being an issue on our wedding night. It seems like the out way around would make sense. Don’t women usually hold back before they get married and give everything to the man when they do?
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How can I convince my darling wife of variety in our married committed love of 22years? She is not inclined to practise Oral techniques as a way of our marital life as she hails from an orthodox family!!
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I am getting married to my boyfriend of 5 years on Oct. 24th after he comes back from Iraq. I was wondering if there is any good advice or any books I could read to see what I am in for. I am really looking for basically a survival guide something to help me make it through an army marriage.
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I think so. I know examples of gynecologists, Lawyers and Chartered accountants. They have beautiful married life. They have synergistic effect due to each other’s knowledge. They have complimentary life styles. This also helps them in their business. Of course there are some disadvantages like even their personal life gets dominated by professional discussions. What is your opinion ?
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Sheen charged in alleged Christmas Day assault on wife in Aspen
His wife said that Sheen had pinned her to a bed and held a knife to her throat. He faces up to three years in prison. On Monday, a judge modified a protective order barring him from seeing her. Actor Charlie Sheen was charged Monday in a Colorado court with felony menacing, third-degree assault and criminal mischief, stemming from a Christmas Day incident in Aspen, Colo., in which he allegedly …
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