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I had very good friendship wd my causion. Firstly it started by our family’s efforts who wanted we get marry with each other. Early days were pleasant. We luved each other and she always cared of me. but then sme disputes started to arise. She is little abstinate but have much ego & always use to say that she don’t care of any one of what whe is saying & will always do the things shall like. Whenever we disputed we broke for months. Always some other person made the conciliation between us. Then one time our dispute got so long that we got annoyed for years. And no one put a real attention on this matter. During this our attention towards each other gradually decreased and our minds totally washed out by each other’s fealings. Now we’ve again got concilation(almost for the 5th time). I think that our minds r totally different and it is very hard to stay wd her for the whole life. But our parents persist tht it will be ok in future aftr marrge. Guide me what should I do
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Marry; have you been listening to this world lately? If so this article might help you solve all your doubts related to marriage and if not you might want to read the article as sooner or later soon you can hear this word being applicable to you. Marrying someone is like a choice of feathers from the ostrich hat or sometimes choosing the right from various odds. In either of the case it is difficult to choose the right one that may suit you. Today we find various sites like vivaahguru.com, matrimonalservices.com, and among others helping an individual to make the right choice. Unlike ancient past where to find the right choice to marry one relied on grandmother or grandfathers or the local matrimonial channel (relatives and advisers), today these sites give us a wide range of choices for both the bride and the groom and helps in finding the just right one for you.

It would be surprising to know that marriage is a single institution that is popular worldwide and is followed among the various cultures. Across the ages, either we take the era of our grandfather or the era today, marriage is given priority and is an event that everyone looks forward to celebrate. Today we find various counselors and physiatrists that could be consulted if at all either of the partners have a block relating to marry. Marriage may either be a right choice or just a matter of miss for anyone, therefore it is always advisable to gain access to all that one has in hand and then take a decision. Though marriage is celebrated as a custom of fun and joy, it requires a great detailing while selecting either the bride or the groom. Marriage is an event, witnessing a series of customs in culture across. A marriage is a place where on can witness not only the customs that are followed by a particular community or religion but also the superstition that they follow. The marriage of two individuals is called as matrimonial. Today we find various sites related to these services. Coating from above some of the popular sites in the field of matrimonial is vivahaguru.com, matrimony.com, and among others that provide a wide range of match across the globe. Now searching for the bride or the groom is not a task, it has become simpler and easier by just a click away. However yet it is crucial bargained job as it requires patience and eye to detail before one can arrive at any conclusion.

With the little information above, it would be worth to conclude that marriage is an important event in everyone’s life; it not only involves joy but also a responsibility to manage someone else life. Serving as an interaction point between cultures and customs for individual marriage brings commitments to live up to. These commitments are no just the commitment that they take while getting married but also certain commitments that they expect from each other, to make a successful married life.

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I was Catholic when I married for the first time. I divorced and became a Christian. Me and my fiancee are planning on getting married at the Christian church we attend. Can we do that?
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Marry Me: I Do

Written by: Nicole Foxx

Who should I marry? Who is right for me? Should marriage be divine? Is there someone predestinated for me?

There are so many unanswered questions that fall under the umbrella of who should I marry.  A survey of 200 married women showed that 67% of them married because of “love; 30% out of financial obligation; and 7% out of fear.  While these static’s are interesting, the mindset of these women is intriguing even more so and with out a doubt worth exploring.  

Discovering the ideal candidates for marriage must start with you.  Undoubtedly the message that is conveyed to the opposite sex, whether intentional or non-verbal has strong influence on the “type” of person that it appeals to. Generally speaking people attract the type of men or women they find less desirable and less likely to marry. Clearly, answering the above questions is not an exact science however; there are certain behaviors that can render more positive outcomes. The following four steps are designed to position single persons so that they send off the right messages:

Deal with any “baggage” from previous relationships and childhood.

Studies have shown that in many cases people are attracted to those that are similar in character to their parent or parental figure. A woman may unconsciously choose a man that is similar their father and man may choose a woman that possesses qualities like his mother. Some Psychologists believe that this is “hardwired”; or predestined for both men and women. In light of this, it is vitally important to discover yourself and deal with all traumatic experiences, whether in past relationships or from childhood. Issues can be unveiled in counseling and/or though a spiritual relationship with God.

2.   Figure out who you are as a person.

Explore yourself: your need and desires, physical, psychological and emotional. Do some soul searching by spending time alone, writing, reading and reflecting on you. Figure out what qualities you bring to the table. What are your strengths, weakness, opportunities for improvement? Analyze yourself with the objective of capitalizing on your strengths. Once you explore yourself you be able to identify qualities you will appreciate in a mate. Have clear objectives for yourself and put together a plan to accomplish your goals for career and life. Seek out a mentor or pastor; it is often enlightening to take in to account the observations of others. It may also be helpful to keep a journal of your daily or weekly accounts; noting your feeling/ emotions and later reading it out loud to yourself. This will give you an idea of events that lead to varies emotions and actions. Ignorance is not bliss and knowledge is truly powerful when used productively.

    3.     Don’t use fillers.

Whether you believe that there is someone designed specially to be your husband/ wife or not, it is unwise to use people to fill your time until Mr. or Ms. Right comes along. You will evitably miss them if someone else is distracting you or keeping you busy.

Have realistic expectations and don’t settle.

Finally and perhaps most importantly, don’t limit yourself to a certain type of man or women. In many cases the person you marry is not the “type” you initially thought you enjoyed. If your knowledge of yourself and your expectation of a mate are clear you should stick to them.  Anxiety is unattractive and uncomfortable to anyone interested in courting you. Settling, in my opinion, is one of the reason’s people are unhappy in marriages. Settling also send the message of desperation and people can “smell” desperation form a miles away.

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Do you want to marry a millionaire? Well, you have a good chance of achieving your goal if you take notice of the following advice.
Know What You Want.
Make learning how to marry a millionaire, your mission in life. You may get many rejections but if you keep focused on your goal anything is achievable.

Have Plenty of Friends.
Finding and marrying a millionaire takes friends and spies working with you and for you. It will help if you can create a network of people helping to look for someone. Your family and friends know you best and they can always be on the look out for you, with your best interest at heart.

Show Up at Millionaire Places.
If you want to marry a millionaire, you have to go to where the millionaires are.

Join Millionaire Dating Service.
This option is a no brainer! Register at these specific Millionaire Dating services to meet wealthy men. These websites cater to millionaires; talented and successful men who’ve achieved wealth and status and who are looking to meet a like minded women for dating, companionship and marriage. Many of these wealthy men are ready to share the benefits of their lifestyle with stylish and sophisticated women. These Millionaire Dating services are mainly for rich and wealthy people seeking enduring relationships, so why not join and find your Millionaire here? MillionaireCupid.com, Wealthychats.com, just name a few.

Know Who The Millionaires Are!
If you want to marry rich, you have to know who they are. Read the financial pages in the newspapers, check out the social news scene and real estate and property section in your newspapers. Design ways to meet the guys who have the ‘right’ qualifications and be friendly. Know where they will be on specific days and times and make a plan to get near them, start a conversation, and invite them for coffee. Sounds brazen doesn’t it, but if you appear confident you will feel confident!

Take No Notice Of Any Critics.
Plenty of people will deride and make fun of you but if you want to achieve your goal, be unshakable. You must be impervious to criticism and be focused.

Most Important – Never Give Up.
Never lose sight of your goal. Some people want to be a doctor. Some want to be an astronaut. You want to marry a millionaire. End of story.

Did you know that nearly half of all marriages in the US. end in divorce but only one-third of millionaire couples get divorced. The reason is that both the man and the woman make conscious choices and while they also choose people who are attractive to them, they place more value on other characteristics such as intelligence, sincerity, cheerfulness, reliability, and affection.

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We’ve all heard the stories about either the bride or groom getting a good case of “cold feet” prior to the actual wedding day. Generally these incidences are disregarded as some form of normal pre-marital anxiety that will soon pass. But how do you know for certain whether you should pay attention to such attacks of concern or whether you should just shrug your shoulders and ignore these potential “red flags”?

 

First, it is not unusual when someone is contemplating a huge step like marriage for numerous thoughts to potentially enter their mind. Thoughts like:

 

Am I merely infatuated and therefore choosing the wrong person for a lifetime commitment?

Could I lose my independence to such a degree that I lose my identity?

Will we have enough money as a couple to make it on our own?

Are we really compatible? Are our families compatible?

 

 

 

Whenever we are on the verge of entering any unfamiliar stage of life, it’s normal for questions to arise along with a certain degree of fear. In fact, some forms of fear are healthy and provide us with a warning system that we are about to enter into an experience that is unsafe or possibly harmful.

 

Fear can slow us down and prevent us from making a bad decision, alerting us to what we really need to do and why. But fear can also hold us back from making good choices, like when we’ve found exactly the right person to spend our lives with, but our mind remains full of those negative “what-if” scenarios.

 

The Fear of the Lord is the Beginning of Knowledge

 

Proverbs 1:7 tells us, “The fear of the Lord is the beginning of knowledge.” So if you are trying to determine whether your concerns about your marriage plans warrant further scrutiny, fearing the Lord is the beginning of that knowing. Seeking His leading in prayer and through the counsel of other Godly people that have your best interest in mind is central to making the right decision.

 

While marrying someone who shares similar values, direction, and interests is important, all those considerations assume you are ready for marriage, that you understand the nature and demands of what marriage entails. Consequently, rather than asking, “Is this person or that person the one I am to marry?” you might start first by asking, “Do I know who I am as a person? Am I ready for marriage?”

 

Many people search for another person to “complete them” rather than doing the hard work of addressing their own wounds and needs for healing. No other human being can complete or heal us. Only by allowing a Holy God to do a deep work in our individual lives are we prepared to commit ourselves to another person with fidelity and intimacy.

 

Perfect Love Casts Out Fear

 

Each of us has our own “secret self,” the part of us where we hide such things as our jealousies, our addictions, and our hatred toward those who have wounded us. The act of marriage places us in the position where that curtain is pulled back exposing the good, the bad and the ugly parts of us. When someone sees into who we really are, that is called intimacy. And that can be very intimidating and scary!

 

The good news is when we love our partner with a Godly love, that act brings God’s Spirit into the equation. When we love our partner with the same love that God loves us, we are moved away from fear. In fact, “perfect love casts out fear.”

 

Of course by “perfect” we do not mean that we have the ability to love perfectly as God is capable of doing, but when we allow God to express His love through us, He is able to “get the job done” despite our shortcomings. Each time we allow God’s love to work in us and through us, we no longer have to hide ourselves; we can experience the love that casts out all fear.

 

Despite the “formulas,” pre-marital assessments, and Godly counsel that might be of great assistance and value in making a wise choice, there is something far beyond your natural human ability that has to ultimately guide your process – something supernatural. At some point you have to trust that God is leading you, that you have made the right choice. As The Message so wisely admonishes in Proverbs 3:5-7:

 

                                  Trust God from the bottom of your heart;

                                  don’t try to figure out everything on your own.

                                  Listen for GOD’S voice in everything you do, everywhere you go;

                                  he’s the one who will keep you on track.

                                  Don’t assume that you know it all.

                                  Run to God! Run from evil!

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