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I married a millionaire

When I was a little girl I used to dream about meeting a beautiful rich prince who would save me from misery and protect me. I believed in happily ever after.

At the age of 18 I moved to NYC and met a young good-looking man. He had just started a business & I joined him. After one year the money started to flood in. My boyfriend & I became multi millionaires. He started to smoke cigars, buy expensive cars and receive millionaire magazines. He bought clothes from Louis Vuitton and he simple became a jerk.

I told him go sod off and moved. He had gone through a personality change.

5 years after our relationship had ended I met a new man. He was 2 years younger then I. I loved him. After 2 years I broke up with him. He was immature, irresponsible and I had to pay for everything. I bought him clothes, food, expensive trips. After I finished with him I met another man who ripped me of. He stole a lot of money from me and expected me to pay for everything simply because I was rich. I was an intelligent, kind, beautiful but very naïve woman. I decided that love doesn’t exist. I decided to find my self a millionaire. Someone just like me, that I could marry & have children with. Screw love. Most men leave their wives when they’re too young anyway. It would surely happen to me too. Why would I be an exception? I started to go on millionaire speed dating in Brazil and joined a dating site for wealthy and successful people. I almost gave up when I suddenly found a message from an attractive man in my inbox. He said he had found me interested and attractive. We started to write to each other & speak on the phone. One date he asked me if I would want to visit him in NYC. I really love NYC and had always wanted to return to NY. I said yes. After one week I arrived at the airport in NY. He picked me up in his limo. I knew when I decided to go to NY it might be a bad decision, but when I saw him & his attitude I knew it was a bad decision. He was 10 years older then my. In reality 15 years older then me. It looked like he suffered from a middle life crisis. He had cufflinks & socks with skulls & a white suite and too much gel in his hair.  Prayed to god to help me. In the limo he opened champagne and told me I was beautiful. Then he started to smoke weed and that’s when I almost fainted.

The next morning after my arrival I told him I wanted to go home or to go live with friends I had in NY. I told him I didn’t like his attitude.

We argued and discussed, because he felt ashamed and embarrassed I wanted to leave him so soon. We had not had much time to talk. I told him the drugs speak for it. He was crazy. But I had to admit I was still curious about this man. Now when I had established that don’t want to date him and that I will leave I asked him if we could go for lunch and just talk like friends I don’t like harsh endings. He agreed. When he came to pick me up he looked very different, more relaxed, and much friendlier. Not like a mafia boss anymore.

After one week I was leaving. We were both crying. I didn’t want to leave him. He had changed me. I was happy. I used to be very strict while he was more artistic. He made me feel free, and we had so much fun together. He wasn’t a shallow weird crazy person after all. He had just been unsecure. Today we are married and I’m waiting my first child.

Millionaire dating is not a horrible thing. I don’t like men to take advantage over me just because I’m successful & my husband and I are both very similar when it comes to values, education, choice of life and lifestyle. I don’t think I could find a partner as easy on other dating sites.

(Story from an interview with an ex jetsetter)

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Premiering in April 1987, Married With Children became a staple of the growing Fox Network’s original prime time programming, paving the way for further original creations such as The Simpsons. The total opposite of what a TV family should be, the original working title for the show was Not The Cosbys (a reference to the perfect family atmosphere of the popular 80’s sitcom The Cosby Show). Paving the way for ABC’s Roseanne, Married With Children more than lived up to its working title, chronicling the pathetic life of a Chicago shoe salesman and his equally dysfunctional family…

Married With Children follows the exploits of the Bundy family, a dysfunctional trailer-park trash family living in American suburbia. The family is headed by Al Bundy (Ed O’Neill), a shoe salesman who’s lewd, crude, sarcastic, and completely dissatisfied with his life as a loser. Al’s wife Peg (Katey Sagal) spends her days watching Oprah and spending what little money Al brings home (she’s also Al’s greatest source of annoyance). Al and Peg’s lives are complicated by their children, Kelly (Christina Applegate), a beautiful yet stupid teenager, and Bud (David Faustino), a sex-starved adolescent. With neighbors Steve (David Garrison), Marcy (Amanda Bearse), and Jefferson (Ted McGinley) dropping in on a regular basis, Al’s dreams of a normal family life or a spare moment to relax are continually interrupted by the tortuous reality of his mediocre existence…

The Married With Children DVD features a number of hilarious episodes including the series pilot in which Peg and Al, worried because they have no friends of their own, meet the new neighbors, Steve and Marcy Rhoades. Steve and Marcy have the perfect marriage, but the bad influences of the Bundys conspire to turn them against each other… Other notable episodes from Season 1 include “Whose Room is It Anyway?” in which Steve and Marcy decide to add a new room onto their house while Peg and Al pit the couple against each other in order to serve their own selfish interests, and “Peggy Sue Got Work” in which Al’s refusal to buy Peg the VCR she wants prompts her to get a job in a local department store…

Below is a list of episodes included on the Married With Children (Season 1) DVD:

Episode 1 (Pilot) Air Date: 04-05-1987

Episode 2 (Thinnergy) Air Date: 04-12-1987

Episode 3 (But I Didn’t Shoot the Deputy) Air Date: 04-19-1987

Episode 4 (Whose Room is it Anyway?) Air Date: 04-26-1987

Episode 5 (Have You Driven a Ford Lately) Air Date: 05-03-1987

Episode 6 (Sixteen Years and What Do You Get) Air Date: 05-10-1987

Episode 7 (Married… Without Children) Air Date: 05-17-1987

Episode 8 (The Poker Game) Air Date: 05-24-1987

Episode 9 (Peggy Sue Got Work) Air Date: 05-31-1987

Episode 10 (Al Loses His Cherry) Air Date: 06-07-1987

Episode 11 (Nightmare on Al’s Street) Air Date: 06-14-1987

Episode 12 (Where’s the Boss) Air Date: 06-21-1987

Episode 13 (Johnny Be Gone) Air Date: 06-28-1987

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UP Soundtrack – Married Life Theme. Enjoy!

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I have seen this topic in many forums being discussed heatedly. The scenario is thus. Somebody is in love with a married man/woman. The married person is also in love with our man/woman. But does not want to give away the marriage. What should be done?

Those who fall in love with a married person get trapped. That is the trap of dishonesty.
Such relationships will never be happy. The married person is having dual commitments and is hiding his love from his/her spouse. What use is that marriage? The thought that I am cheating my spouse is enough to kill all the joy. Dishonesty never gives joy.

Even if the married person wants to have dual commitments, he/she should make it very clear to the spouse. There should be no hide and seek. Once you tell your spouse, your spouse has to decide about whether the relationship should continue or marriage be broken. Do not be surprised if the spouse the other relationship to continue for love of his/her partner.

As far as the unmarried lover is concerned, he/she should stop seeing the lover unless the married end is sorted out fully. Otherwise you will again have the guilt of cheating. Such relationships are heart breaking and need tremendous understanding. Me and my own, that is the principal of life for most of us. No body wants to share his /her spouse with others. It was not uncommon in earlier days. But today, the whole idea seems difficult to imagine. Love and relationship are not easy to live with. Our emotions and feelings can bring us pain at any time.

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Im a 13 year old girl who is in love with a 13 year old boy. He is serously cute, tall, thin, and extremely strong. His life revolves around school, exercise in the park in the afternoon on an obstacle course that involves various strenght building exercises, a mother enforced diet of low fat foods and NO red meat, church on sunday (though I plan to change that because Im Jewish and I want him to practice my religion), total respect and non violance of all persons (though he has risked his life to save a person from armed robbery much to everyones chagrin). In short his behavior is far different than the typical 13 yr old boy. I love him and want to marry him when we both grow up. The problem is his mother is overly protective. She sets an 8:30 pm bedtime. She feeds him cookies and milk at bedtime and he loves his mothers attentions. She likes me and trusts me not to try anything with her son (I wont). I think that Jamie doesnt rebel because he loves female attention.
Hey everyone Im sorrrry! I dont want to change Jamie! I respect his mom too much to hurt her son in anyway. I respect his religion. But im NOT too young to know true love and HE’s my true love. My grandpa has some classical songs he listens to on cds when he drives me around. One goes “Your my Number 1, Nuumberr 1″. Jamie is my Number 1.
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Getting into married life is a major decision. It is not as simple as changing your clothes or your shoes. It consists of a whole lot of opportunities – and a lot of leaving behind. But since you practically want to spend the rest of your life with that one person you choose to marry, then this kind of life change is not hard to embrace. After all, all your life, you’ve dreamed of this moment.

Now that you are through planning wedding dresses, wedding cakes and your wedding decor – Toronto or elsewhere – the next big thing is to prepare for your whole life together. Fretting over the design of your bridesmaid dress and the color of your bouquet is nothing compared to getting into married life.

So given that all preparations for the wedding is done and you’ve finally chosen one from among equally fabulous wedding dresses, the following are some of the things that you need to be prepared for:

1. Establish your love nest.

Especially if you have not started living together, among the most important things to consider after the wedding ceremony is where you, as a couple would live. Should you, as the wife, move in with your husband? Or would your husband need to be in your house? Are you going to live with one of your in-laws? This is a major decision that both you and your husband-to-be should tackle even before the wedding dresses selection gets done.

If you choose to get a new place, then be ready with the down payment. Also, plan on how many days it will take to move all of your stuff in your love nest.

2. Clarify your financial arrangements.

As husband and wife, of course what the husband owns will now be his wife’s – and the other way around. Unless you belong to the filthy rich, then you don’t need to have all those pre-nuptial agreements signed.

Managing your finances is an important aspect in married life. Talk about it – rather than just assume. If you want, you can discuss who will handle such a household expense. It is the modern times already and gone are the days when the man of the house is solely responsible for all expenses. Take care of some household expenses – for instance, groceries, telephone bills, electric consumption. You probably have had your share in paying for the most fabulous of wedding dresses during your wedding, so might as well contribute to the expenses at home now.

3. Recognize that there will always be something to argue about.

This is not to say that you should be “negative.” Instead, this means that you have to be realistic. It’s not always that you and your husband will have the same train of thought. It is not all the time that the household will be about smiles and sunshine. So, if you acknowledge this, then you will be prepared on how to deal with your partner’s “tantrums.” If you acknowledge this, then you can still have a “perfect life together – despite the arguments and occasional flare ups.

Therefore, wedding preparation should not only end with wedding dresses and members-of-the-entourage selection. Rather, the wedding ceremony should be taken as the starting line of another journey, the so called married life.

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hi,
i dont really have my mom to talk about sex and stuff. my mom passed away a few years ago and she would always tell me to save it. but now that im going through some changes and feelings shes not here to guide me. i want to save it i think to the man that i love and want to be with for the rest of my life i think it would be more special right?? other people say that just do it already. ughh should i just save it to the man i love or to the man that i will marry. please i need some advice. gosh i miss mom.
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What separates flirters from cheaters?? Assuming the guy has to be discreet – NOT blunt about his intentions b/c the other woman is married?

Any advice about how wrong the behavior is will be a waste of your time… This is purely inquisitive and meant to draw from people’s ACTUAL life experiences.
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HI all! I’m a man and I just turned 30 recently. I’ve never been married and I’ve never had any kids. I think there was a time in the US here when almost all men and almost all women were married by 30. Is it still kind of abnormal in today’s world for a man to be 30 with never being married and no kids? What do you think? Any answers would be appreciated. Thanks!
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Significance of zodiac signs in weddings is much more than anything else. Because Wedding is a traditional practice and almost every people prefer to celebrate wedding in traditional fashion with tinge of modernity. Though most people ignore the importance of stars and celestial bodies in human life, yet whenever wedding comes to the mind they look out for these values more than ever. We can consider this practice as a confidence booster and should believe that the new couples do not want to ignore anything that may affect their relationship in future. But in 21st century weddings, Zodiac signs and wedding preparation are more of a fun than merely conventional practice. Let’s explore some of the funnier aspects of zodiac signs in weddings:

Aries

March 21 – April 20

For Aries, late March to late April is the best time for getting married. Aries is passionate sign and wedding of these people are full of passion and romance. If Aries couples are getting married during this time of the year, they feel more courageous, more determined and stronger mentally.

Taurus

April 21- May 21

For Taurus, Late April to Late May is the right time for wedding. Their never believe in quick fires rather they give themselves enough time to settle down and then they start working out things that could really make up a good and strong married life later. As you know Taurus people are food lovers, so you must expect a better wedding dinner from these people.

Gemini

May 22 – June 21

Unlike Aries, Gemini couples are a bit talkative and love to be flirted. They are very casual about their weddings, but as a guest you won’t be feeling bored as Gemini people are very good at conversation. The most interesting thing about Gemini couples is, “They’re the couple most likely to marry, get divorced, marry another – and then leave their second spouse to go back to each other again.” (Source: BrideOnline.com.au)

Cancer

June 22 – July 22

People with Cancer Zodiac sign are parent-lovers and you should be surprised finding more of your old relatives instead of screaming friends in the wedding parties. They are moody, sensitive and love to spend the whole life together without any break ups. Later June to Later July is the right time for the Cancerous to get married.

Leo

July 23 – August 23

If you wish to enjoy a fashionable and glamorous wedding, then join any Leo couples wedding. Leo is the most fashionable and majestic zodiac sign among all. They prefer designers outfits during weddings and their romantic mood surely enchant any body in the wedding party. And if you are joining your friend’s wedding party and your friend’s zodiac sign is Leo, then surely expect finding your better half in the wedding party; as Leo people prefer to play matchmaking roles. Later July to Later August is the better time to get wed for Leo couples.

There are several such interesting stories and sayings preserved for zodiac signs in relation to weddings. In fact, Wedding is the most significant event of somebody’s life and one should ensure everything to make his or her wedding a memorable one. Mauius.com is one of the premier wedding organizers in Maui. If you are planning to get wed in Maui, then just make a call at 1 (877) 875-6127 and celebrate your wedding in Maui fashion. For more details visit – http://www.mauius.com/

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