I know this isn’t always the case, but if the man doesn’t have any other women friends, then I think a married man sometimes has the wrong intentions when being friends with a woman. I know it is a case by case situation, I’m sure.
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March 28th, 2010 at 7:56 pm
You are 100% right.
March 28th, 2010 at 8:41 pm
Whoa, I’m having deja vu here. I think that married men like to have other women besides their wives as friends because they might need them in the future for advice on a gift or something else.
March 28th, 2010 at 9:37 pm
You have answer your own q.
March 28th, 2010 at 9:43 pm
If it’s a friendship that his wife is unaware of, yes, there are other motives.
March 28th, 2010 at 9:58 pm
my husband has female friends, and i have male friends. no other motives, and we BOTH know the friends. there are no “secret friends” in our relationship.
March 28th, 2010 at 10:42 pm
To be honest, we don’t need women friends because somewhere down the line of friendship,the line will be crossed. Then, it’s on like popcorn.
March 28th, 2010 at 11:07 pm
Mine did… but u r right, everyone is different.
March 28th, 2010 at 11:57 pm
Men – married or not – have 3 lists in their heads:
[1] women we want to screw but haven’t screwed yet
[2] women we have already screwed
[3] women too hideous to screw
And we DO NOT hang around 3’s.
It’s ALWAYS the case that he has an ulterior motive. Stop believing the bullsh*t some man is telling you so he can get into another woman’s panties.
March 29th, 2010 at 12:30 am
When a married man never cared to have female friends in his life then suddenly has one I would be questioning his motive for the relationship to. Men often do not realize how territorial some of us women are where our men are concerned especially when we do not know what intent another woman may have about our husbands. When things like this start happening our gut feeling is telling us something that is not always good so watch the situation closely or do something to disrupt it somehow.Start keeping your husband very active and busy with you and keep him focused on what the two of you have.
March 29th, 2010 at 1:15 am
It depends I have several married coworkers whose only ulterior motive is to make sure I will help them with work issues
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